Heading back…
I don’t think I mentioned it here (only on the house blog), but the kids and I have been visiting my parents since late Sunday night. We’re heading back this morning, and while I’m looking forward to seeing my dear husband again, I can’t say I’m particularly looking forward to going back otherwise. As much as I try to maintain perspective and all, well, it is hard to live this life, harder than what I am used to. In the tents it was much more of an adventure than it feels like now.
When I was here I not only got to visit with my parents and enjoy their spacious house, I also went to my old book group and to the homeschool park day we used to go to every week. Most of the regulars were there, and it was great to see them all… but it also made me realize how much I miss them! I’ve never been very good at making friends or finding a community, and I think this is the first time I’ve really done so since college. I’m sure I’ll get there in our new home, but the whole stumbling around, trying to figure out how to do it part is always rather tiresome and frustrating.
Well, time to keep loading up the car so we can get on the road. If anyone has any tips on how to find friends, I’d love to hear them. ![]()
Tienne on 28 Oct 2007 at 5:46 pm #
I wish I had good advice to give! I could use it myself. My church has been a good avenue for meeting people, but though I have a bunch of new acquaintances I don’t have anyone I’d really call a friend. I’m still calling my buddies back home when I have something I need to talk about.
We just have to keep reaching out, I guess. Thank the Lord for kids. Isn’t it easier to say “Let’s get the boys together for a playdate!” than “Would you like to have coffee sometime?”
Sandy on 29 Oct 2007 at 2:37 pm #
Try hard to keep focusing on the future … children playing under those beautiful trees, walks on your stunning property, a phenomenal home that you all built with your own hands, etc, etc. It really will be worth it all! Promise! And I still really believe you alone have earned the name “Mountain Mama”. I surrender any former claim to it
Sandy
Alice Gunther on 14 Nov 2007 at 5:19 am #
You are doing this already, I’m sure, but my tip would be to pray. Ask the Blessed Mother (the most wonderful friend there is) to help you find friends when you settle into your new home.
When we moved to Long Island, I felt extremely isolated, but the prayers for friends brought them one by one!
Offering up one for you right now! Congratulations on that wonderful new home.